Personally actually like the character of the original software, it is as fast as its going to be at full chat, which isn't a slow change, and obviously slower when you are tootling along.
Having had a DSG daily for a while and the Mrs Golf is DSG, the instant twiching rev counter between instant changes is rather soulless really.
Gordon Murray on his interview about his new supercar commented that he disliked dual clutch gearboxs, simply because you miss the feeling of the car making the mechanical change.
The same also with the new automatic gearboxes like the ZF 8 speed. Super efficient and fast, you don't know charges are taking place.
Of course now with EVs no gear changes.
So embrace the gear change 'pause'!