John, I am aware of the social networking thing, it has been pointed out to me by a couple of members now and a reference was also made on MF.
This is what brought this vote onto the site. What I have done is reduce the leadership table on the front page, and increase the active threads listed in an attempt to ease this.
Now, talking to the other site leaders, they all point out that there is only so much you can talk about Maserati, hence why it does tend to wander.
Is this a bad thing, well, you have made a valid point in your observation, but as others above have said, we have evolved in to a bunch of mates really, and we back this up with high attendance for our forum outings.
To give you an idea of the void between the two forums, Peter/Safrane organised the Autumn France trip across both forums and all bar 1 or 2 were SM members.
Also, Miles/Emtee has put a massive effort into our Xmas doo, and the support shows as we have 30 plus attending. Now if you go over to MF you will see they have also organised their own doo, well, it appears to be Peter/Safrane doing all the organisation as usual, and you can count the numbers on one hand. We also wanted to offer our xmas party to MF owners, but were told to shove it.
I think as the MF forum evolves without Brian on board, I think they will start to claw back some of the traffic, and I am pleased for that, believe me I am. Once this happens, we can all move on from the politics of forums and I myself will post on there again (if the new members agree to un ban me, Brian's parting shot that was totally unprovoked), and yes, for technical issues only, as the social side of that site is pretty much none existence.