now back and the car surived, found the autobahn not that great for high speed, took the car to ~120 which got there fast, 130 then 140 and it seemed I was skimming the surface the road and slightly bouncing with sport mode on or off (not much difference), slowed down and braking also seemed bad on these roads, so didn't go much over 100. had a good time and still some bmw and audi over taking me ~120
just for reference to anyone doing euro trip of some sort, I stopped and asked the french police about the blinkers for the head lights and was told not to worry about them, so if anyone needs a set for another car let me know and I'll post them off, will save you a few pennies.
big thanks to all for their help