Thanks guys for the comments and pictures
Pretty much resigned myself to the car being a write off - I've seen a whole front sub frame on ebay for £500 - £2K new, wings and bonnet available from David Askew front grille and valance good old eurospares, then its paint sundries and a lot of unbolting - oh yes and a rear wheel with a chunk out of it.
Definately worth considering repair if insurance just pay out, just keeping my fingers crossed and hope Aviva do a proper valuation, hoping for somewhere betweeen 12 and 13K