That's what I mean, not physically forced but you're a bad parent if your house isn't spotless and fitted with CCTV baby monitors, alarms for if they stop breathing , the very latest books on child care, when our son was born 18 years ago I bought a book on child care because I hadn't got a clue , the health worker looked at it and told me it was 3 years out of date
It's worse with the Internet , what's good for you this week is killing you next week but what most people don't think about is none of it is for our benefit, it's all to guilt trip us into spending money