OK. If it uses an uprated relay, in any sensible meaning of the phrase, all that will happen is a lower rated relay will burn out. Eventually
The problem with these things seems to be there is no protection from the back EMF generated when switching an inductive load (like the pump) which may cause arcing to the contact points. Two things may happen there: 1) The contacts erode to the point they no longer can switch the pump on, and you get no pressure, so go nowhere. 2) The contacts weld shut. The pump runs continuously, and eventually burns out.
Either *might* happen with a 'lower rated' relay, but frankly, since the issue is *probably* the back EMF, I think it's extraordinarily unlikely to have any greater, or lesser probability. If you are suffering from issue 2, you should *hear* it. My F1 pump comes on when I open the door, and has gone off pretty much before I'm even comfortable. If I hear not not turning off, then I'll start worrying. I very much doubt it's going to burn the pump out in one drive, though.
However, it's not my car, so not my call, I'm just trying look at it sensibly
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