Hi Gavin,
I've been there too, got the t-shirt and come through the other side. To this day I don't know how I actually came through the other side with everything that my ex-wife threw at me but I made it, albeit with a number of mental scars.
Is it too late to try some marriage guidance counselling? A mate of mine went through a bad patch last year (him and his Mrs were well down the divorce path) but they tried counselling and are back together and as happy as ever.
Hope you get a good price for your car.
Cheers
Steve
LOL I will.
The car is now sold.
Tomorrow a proud new owner is flying down from Scotland and I will pick him up at the airport.